What TomKat Can Teach Us about the Enneagram Type 3 / Type 6 Couple

The success-driven, image-conscious Type 3 Achiever with the security-conscious, risk-averse Type 6 Skeptic — do they work as a couple or do they drive each other crazy?

Like all Enneagram couples, this pair can be blissful or miserable, depending mainly on their levels of awareness. With high levels of consciousness, this is a stable, supportive partnership based on shared values and a true heart connection. And with low levels of awareness, this is a lifeless relationship peppered with evasiveness, withdrawal, and often an eventual split.

If we want to see the spectrum play out in real life, we can study the relationship between Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes.

What they got right (read the full post on Truity).